{"id":1769,"date":"2021-04-27T14:12:11","date_gmt":"2021-04-27T14:12:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.presbyterianmission.org\/weekly-offerings\/?p=1769"},"modified":"2021-04-28T13:05:02","modified_gmt":"2021-04-28T13:05:02","slug":"raising-faithful-stewards-a-mothers-day-tribute-to-my-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/centernet.pcusa.org\/weekly-offerings\/2021\/04\/27\/raising-faithful-stewards-a-mothers-day-tribute-to-my-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Raising faithful stewards: A Mother\u2019s Day tribute to my children"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Emily Enders Odom<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cMama do.\u201d<\/p>\n

For at least a year, if my memory can be trusted, that singular refrain punctuated our daughter\u2019s every sentence. \u201cMama do.\u201d<\/p>\n

Once, during a rare visit to our North Carolina home from my family in New York, the precocious toddler\u2019s words even coaxed a laugh from my usually stern father, who wondered aloud how I ever managed to get anything done.<\/p>\n

\u201cMama do.\u201d<\/p>\n

The mere utterance of that phrase invariably brought all work and leisure activities to a screeching halt. And yet \u201cmama do\u201d was music to my ears. It allowed me to more fully inhabit what I understood a mother\u2019s role to be. A generous, unconditional giver of whatever was requested or required in any and all circumstances, from tying a shoe to dabbing away a tear.<\/p>\n

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Emily and her daughter Lizzie pictured with Joan Bryan (center) at Lizzie’s bridal shower.<\/p><\/div>\n

\u201cThe disciplines of stewardship and self-offering are a grateful response to God\u2019s love for the world and self-giving in Jesus Christ,\u201d we read in the Book of Order<\/em> (W-5.0103). \u201cAs Christians, we are called to lives of simplicity, generosity, hospitality, compassion, and care for creation.\u201d<\/p>\n

Being a good parent then, it seemed to me, is much the same calling as being a good steward. And striving to be faithful stewards in every sense of the word, my husband and I prayerfully sought to raise faithful stewards who would similarly follow in God\u2019s ways. It was the only way we knew how to parent.<\/p>\n

\u201cStart children off on the way they should go,\u201d reads Proverbs 22:6 (NIV), \u201cand even when they are old they will not turn from it.\u201d<\/p>\n

Echoes of \u201cmama do\u201d follow me to this day.<\/p>\n

Our daughter, now 24 years old and a professional American Sign Language interpreter and social worker with the Deaf and hard of hearing in Greensboro, North Carolina, was recently married there in a beautiful service, which was both signed and voiced. A year beforehand, when we first started to talk about who would take charge of the wedding planning \u2014 who would be responsible for attending to every last detail \u2014 our daughter had but one answer: \u201cMama do.\u201d She knew me to be as meticulous and as careful as she is with time and resources, just as we had raised her and our son to be.<\/p>\n

And on this Mother\u2019s Day, I honor both of my children and all<\/em> of God\u2019s children, who teach me every day how to be a better parent. And a better steward.<\/p>\n

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Lizzie and Ryan\u2019s wedding at Starmount Presbyterian Church, Greensboro, N.C., was both signed and voiced. (Photo credit Satsuki Scoville, scovillephotography.com)<\/p><\/div>\n

These days, as I watch the ongoing love story and the rapid fingerspelling continue to unfold between our daughter and her new husband, I stare hopelessly at my own stubborn fingers, endlessly disappointed that they won\u2019t cooperate in my many attempts to learn American Sign Language. Although these same fingers quickly remember how to play my childhood oboe whenever I pick it up even now, there are seemingly no helpful mnemonics, no muscle memory, to build my ASL vocabulary.<\/p>\n

Sensing my frustration coupled with my desire to learn, our daughter gave me and my husband at Christmas the most thoughtful gift of all: private ASL tutoring sessions with two of the couple\u2019s best friends.<\/p>\n

Carefully I form the sign for \u201cI love you\u201d because it\u2019s about all I can remember. But just maybe, it\u2019s enough.<\/p>\n

\u201cMama do.\u201d<\/p>\n

# # #<\/p>\n

In honor of our children\u2019s \u201csimplicity, generosity, hospitality, compassion, and care for creation,\u201d I have given a Pair of Goats<\/a> through the Presbyterian Giving Catalog. Won\u2019t you join me this Mother\u2019s Day<\/a> by making a gift that spreads hope and helps create lasting, positive change around the world?<\/p>\n

The Rev. Emily Enders Odom is the Presbyterian Mission Agency\u2019s mission interpretation strategist.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"By Emily Enders Odom \u201cMama do.\u201d For at least a year, if my memory can be trusted, that singular refrain punctuated our daughter\u2019s every sentence. \u201cMama do.\u201d Once, during a rare visit to our North Carolina home from my family in New York, the precocious toddler\u2019s words even coaxed a laugh from my usually stern… Read more »<\/a>","protected":false},"author":593,"featured_media":1772,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[110,103,86,134,2],"tags":[2983,2984,48,2759,5,728,2986,2987,2981,2980,89,1417,1925,4,2025,2982,2985,2988],"class_list":["post-1769","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-children","category-creativity","category-giving","category-mothers-day","category-presbyterian-giving-catalog","tag-american-sign-language","tag-asl","tag-children","tag-emily-enders-odom","tag-giving-catalog","tag-goats","tag-gods-children","tag-marriage","tag-moms","tag-mother","tag-mothers-day","tag-mothers","tag-north-carolina","tag-presbyterian-giving-catalog","tag-proverbs","tag-sign-language","tag-social-worker","tag-wedding"],"yoast_head":"\nRaising faithful stewards: A Mother\u2019s Day tribute to my children - Where Your Heart Is...<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"On this Mother\u2019s Day, I honor both of my children and all of God\u2019s children, who teach me every day how to be a better parent. 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